Who do you want to become? What level of success do you want to achieve? What type of person do you want to be? How do you want people to view you?

"If you are not in the process of becoming the person you want to be, you are automatically engaged in becoming the person you dont want to be"-Dale Carnegie

Growing up we all have that hero figure that we want to be just like. Whether its our parents, grandparents, teachers, coaches... whoever it may be. We are all inspired by someone that makes us want to become better individuals.In our work field we all know that one individual that has the amount of success that we would want to have, or someone that has such an amazing fulfilled life that some might dream of having.

You might ask yourself, what type of hero do you want to become like, and how do you become that person?

Its very simple, matter of fact you wont believe it. In order to become the person we want to be, we must start acting like that person. A group of psychologist correctedly said" When ONE is truely ready for a thing, it puts in its APPEARANCE". When you start acting like the person you want to be, your mind and the universe starts working in interesting ways. You start thinking like that person, acting like that person, believing like that person, simply put.... your mind starts to change. Then once you start acting like this person, you start to become like this person. The universe or god, whoever you believe in, starts to send good things toward yourway. It see's that you are ready to be that person.

But heres the real question, Are you truely willing to be the person you always dreamed of being? Are you going to deticate your time and self to be that person, are you going to work hard and DO what it takes rather then just dream it?

Golf Player vs Wisher

A while ago there was a Golf tournament , and there was a well known golf player that was doing a truley amazing job and was winning the game. After the tournament he was being interviewd and during this interview a fan from the crowd shouts out " I would do anything to be like you." and the golfer got irritated by this comment and he repsonded back " ... you wouldnt do a single thing that I do, you wouldnt wake up every single morning at 5 am and run 6 miles and then hit 10,000 golf balls, every single day of the week. you wouldnt do any of that. IF YOU WOULD THEN YOU WOULD ALREADY BE DOING IT."

A lot of the time all people do is just dream and wish and hope. They're not willing to swim across the ocean to reach the promise land. If you truely want to be the person of you rdreams you have to CHANGE. If you want to be a business person, start studying them, start dressing like them, and start becoming that person. You cannot become the person you want to be if you do not change.

By becoming the person you want to be, your confidence will grow, people will view you differently, and more door will open up for you. As long as you work on your image and your mind and you constantly grow as a person.